Sunday_Service

Good Morning, Welcome to all my loved ones, it has been hard this week but it has been a joyful experience, spending the time with God, I do not spend enough or do I? I spend a lot of time in study, with God, but there are many times I think he would like it better if it was just him and me, focusing on the word and understanding the directives I would assume is his choice, what I study and what form of contents I venture into, I am truly sorry for not being able to write back to everyone and the face book scene is in the thousands, I wish I had the time to write back to the special people who have given me the strength to keep going, plus my faithful friend who has given me the divine guidance to think maybe these writings will save lives and will help change the world, only God can send the people to read them, I do not have any of these cameras and recordings and tapes and CD’s like others; plus to be on TV and radio. I have plenty of years left so I will carry the right of God’s voice within my typed fingers, what I have to work with I utilize and only hope the next few weeks will change which “will” come about. I don’t know what God has prepared I had visions the other day of just an office with The Church M and a desk and a computer and start from there. Let him decide what I do from at hand, it could be a healing place or a marriage place or a counseling place or a direction place or to hand out sandwiches or money who knows? I wanted the mission back in 2003 when I flew in and that was the main objective from April to September – October. The building of the site in August took a while and that too is not fancy; but you have to figure Paul had papyrus paper to write on for his letters and scrolls. Satan has been throwing the kitchen sink at me through all people, to where I have explained before that he and his agents will climb into anyone mostly the unsaved person with the original spirit of evil, original sin or sons of disobedience, and use them to try to totally break my heart, to destroy the work I have to offer. Like I said before none of my family is saved maybe one out of all. I have seen him use even Christians when he is really trying to get to me- to hit them when they are at their weakest time when they are hurt and in anger themselves, he can use their strife or create strife when it does not even exist to open the door for himself. Many times I am confused and I can list many proverbs that contain strife contention mixed with confusion that is not of God, I have seen the most peculiar things happen this week no one would believe it- they were set up like a whole table of dominos. “For God is not the author of confusion, but of peace, as in all churches of the saints.” [1Cor.14:33] So the thing is if I am in confusion I am not in the presence of God. “For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work.” [James 3:16] “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.” [1Cor.15:33] In other translations it says morals and we have to keep our morals. “For godly sorrow worketh repentance to salvation not to be repented of: but the sorrow of the world worketh death.” [2Cor.7:10] “But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.” [1Cor.15:57] I wish and pray I can make more people understand the love Jesus had for us and what he did in steps like a directory or even a flyer that could just capture the truth and grab the attention of the human eye. God will show me; he will tell me what to do, I just need patience which I have had for 7 years; “Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God. Receive us; we have wronged no man, we have corrupted no man, we have defrauded no man. I speak not this to condemn you: for I have said before, that ye are in our hearts to die and live with you. Great is my boldness of speech toward you, great is my glorying of you: I am filled with comfort, I am exceeding joyful in all our tribulation.” [2Cor.7:1-4] I wanted to tear up the old submission thing and the old authority and the woman keeping silent and the truth to all the scriptures especially marriage and family; satan will attack the family and if he can break up the family- he can break up the church which the church is already divided into over 200 segments but whole civilizations have be destroyed by breaking up the families of nations first, and this is all happening right before our eyes, our world does not even know what is going on and satan has his hands in every basket like a container of monkeys, and we are all sitting back and watching TV and watching the daily prophecy which is mostly lies and violence to put fear into the whole of mankind, even Christians are panicking they have forgotten who they are; and satan has even taken the power we all have or should have and buried it under the carpet; when he passes the word “oh” don’t get baptized in the Holy Spirit and don’t speak in tongues and that is all of the devil, well I am still waiting to see any baptizing of the Holy Spirit and walk into the bars and hearing everyone speaking in tongues- talking to God from 1/3 of our inner self who is the exact duplicate of Christ. “That he would grant you, according to the riches of his glory, to be strengthened with might by his Spirit in the inner man;” [Eph. 3:16] I am not going to even think about teaching the spirit soul and body again. We are on to new things I can’t be like that pastor that preached John 3:16 for 3-4 weeks I am just going to hope that you all have learned that by now. Yes the good part is 1/3 of us the ones who gets saved have a new spirit identical to Jesus clean and pure and that is what God is looking at not your exterior; which I still hear preachers teaching on makeup and clothing and hair and jewelry and etc etc. Are we taking care of widows all of the ones who do not have any relatives to help them, “the church” has forgotten that one. I wound not last an hour in a church around here! I would have to say something- if I see sin in the process and don’t say anything- I would be in sin; for whatsoever is not of faith is sin. If I had a little boy and he said in scripture and then thus sayeth the Lord! I would submit to him. When I do have a little boy he will be saved baptized in the Holy Spirit and speaking in tongues at least at the age of 4 or 5. Anyway onward we go I am not going to summit to satan letting him destroy our civilization by destroying the families of our nation; even thou half well close to it- almost ½ of the people today that get married end up in divorce. And there are more divorcees getting married today then people that are getting married for the first time. Now your telling me the church is doing their job? People should be running to the church before they go to physiologists and physiatrists and therapists instead of the word of God and we can save all marriages if we let God Jesus be the head; God created marriage and marriage is not going to work without him. The word of God is the antidote for a successful marriage; the church is not teaching the truths of God’s word and guiding the marriage to the limit of success. You can’t go to all these secular people all the answers are in the owner’s manual “the bible” this is a God given creation so we have a manual for the way marriage functions. It would be the same with a car if you don’t get an owners manual with the car- it will tell you when to take care of it –how to take care of it- to trouble shoot – how to take care of a problem- or when something goes wrong; the car would almost be useless without knowing how to operate the functions as time goes on. You can get some help from these secular people and organizations but it is like putting a band aid on a deep wound. God is responsible and he tells us all things; all aspects; all truths; to His creation- he would not create something without having the guidance to look up for reference; but then again the church today has it going one way; and another church is going another, it is all up to the translation of the word and it is terrible how and why we have so many reasoning’s- conclusions- analysis- ways of thinking- and interpretations of the owners manual the Holy Bible. The biggest thing is this it is not just having a book- God has to be involved with the marriage that he created without God in the marriage itself- the marriage most likely will break down, although I have seen when the person does wait for the perfect mate that God does have for each of us; {as we spoke of last week} and most of the time if they understand the marriage; it will work. God has joined the marriage there are so many truths that we have to turn to in the word of God how more can I speak it, how more can I explain it, we all have to turn to God sometime a marriage will not work independent without God there are always exceptions but look at the facts- look at what we are fighting; we are fighting a force unfamiliar to us and if you are finding or seeking a beautiful mate and when the beauty dies down- people get unsatisfied and they seek something else, knowing that they got together out of the lust of the flesh, people today are afraid of getting married they are all living together in sin and that today is not going to make it either- that just opens the door to satan and more battles; you will be fighting for no reason at all- the devil can come in and place things in each others mind and the jealousy the imaginations will run on; then the soap operas and TV- people are watching this fantasy world- and this is being grinded into peoples brains and people are being taken over by Hollywood. There is no marriage to good that does not need improvement, and there is no marriage to bad that is beyond hope that God can’t help it.

I have so many directions to go from here and I have to write what God wants me to say and there are so many variables so many directions to go, but the main thing is why did God create marriage? God told Adam to be fruitful and to replenish the earth everything else was reproducing with a seed and the same thing with the man and woman appropriation and to multiply. “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” [Gen. 2:24] The unity was established which I will get to later the unity between the husband and wife is so powerful is beyond our normal thinking; which gives us the cause to marry just living with a woman will not give you that unity- you will not achieve that power of being one flesh, the marriage vow is one of pure and of God’s grace. Any other marriage is not going to work if they cannot reproduce and as we see in this world that the man and woman together can only reproduce this goes beyond with much more things to add why God created marriage. What I should go into is what marriage is not; people today have so many beliefs what marriage is and what they are trying to gain through marriage but the thing is people are expecting marriage to produce a lack of something which as I explain it many will be surprised. We need to bring out in the open our thoughts and the things I will bring about will shock some of you, but as I write; you will see what I am trying to explain. Many people think marriage is to make us happy, which is not the case to take away loneliness to be content or to have something like the other piece to the puzzle we have been drawn from the secular world even Christians are falling for the people that are lost, many of us were not brought up in Christian homes and many of us are seeking some sort emotional spiritual benefits by marriage if we have this attitude when we finally get married we will be broken because what we believed- does not come true. I am going to bring you to some scriptures in the book of Corinthians and back then people were into a sex worship; they had multiple sex partners, and at the temple they had priests and priestesses that as a religion they had sex with these priests and priestesses, now that they got saved they were asking questions to Paul like what should we do now? I want to take you to [1Cor. 7] where there is much information on marriage but I just want to take you to some of Paul’s answers some of the questions; “The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God.” [1Cor.7:39-40] We all have this understanding that even here Paul says that you can be happy being single there are many ways to look at this- your relationship with God is stronger when you are single- which will fill the void of loneliness- and even Christians today are missing the point that they believe that they need a mate to take away the loneliness and to meet their expectations to be able to share with another and to have someone at your side with you in life which as someone will think even Christians have not challenged the theory of being single; and there are many points to being single in the spirit in some areas to please the wife you have to step out into the world; and the same with pleasing your husband and if we go into something having all these expectations of all my loneliness will be gone- and I will finally be happy- and I will finally be content- and all these other expectations that people believe that they gain when they get married; the problem is when they do get married and all these expectations of the happiness the loneliness and the act of being content does not come when you do get married; you have already fell into something that does not satisfy the need and all along you figured this would take care of the unhappiness and the loneliness will be gone. If these things do not come you are hurt right when you got married and all these ideas and expectations don’t come; you are down in the dumps already, so it is better to tell you all that marriage does not bring you this happiness and this contentment that being single is better off for these qualities. I can give you many scriptures on being single and that Paul was single and I am single here I am at almost 57 and never have been married and I am not a dog at least that I know. I don’t have people passing me a milk bone for Christmas, and if I could ever get back to working out again I would not be prideful- which I would like to stay in shape not with all this pride- and wanting to be someone I was not, I always wanted to be big but most of my years I always was pumping iron and the last 23 years when I came over on the plane when I left my ministry at the “Y” everyone told me to get into that over 50 competition. Here was something I didn’t even think about, so I have been fine single and as far as sexual immorality it has been over a decade to where I have complete absence of anything- all complete celibacy- It has been so long I question things of myself. So maybe Paul was the same way. And you figure if satan stole what I worked at and trained for all those years I should grow back 2 fold; at least that is what scripture says. Who knows when I will be able to start again? I have the faith and the drive so I will not give up ever. Back to the reality so this proverb in 13:12 Hope deferred maketh the heart sick: everything you hoped for in marriage your heart will get sick so do not have these expectations that these things will come into your life through marriage, get them out of your mind and out of your heart. See once you fall into marriage and your expectations do not come you will be crushed and heart broken; the thing is you will think it is your mate as the cause! If you do not read this or you don’t have the knowledge of this reality you will fall into a deeper depression of fighting and un-fulfillment, you will think it is the mate that is not supplying the expectations and you will take it all out upon them the bitterness will fly, it is your fault; it is no your fault; that you are not supplying my needs of what I hoped for; no it is your fault this didn’t even work this far; what is happening; the depression will set in and the war will start- so two broken hearts will fall over a simple deduction of not knowing the purpose of marriage. People need to understand the things of this nature are just not so, and bitterness will arise and then “anger” and you will take it out on each other your own mates over a simple confusion and even go as far as taking it out your bitterness on God- and you will say why did you give me this woman; why did you give me this man; and why did this come about? The thing is marriage does not fulfill these expectations that Hollywood brings to the screen, you and thousands of others across the globe fall into this same confusion day by day; Now they are getting married and remarried and saying to themselves well I can’t make the same mistake twice; and you still are wondering what happened this new person could do this and do that what happened? And you fall into a deeper depression- a deeper confusion and why isn’t this working with this new one; or this new mate? Because that is not where you were meant to get your expectations from; so I hope many people read this and I hope someone will tell you by reading this that marriage does not fulfill many qualities that mankind expects. God did not intend for marriage to give you peace –joy- happiness- contentment-That is not the purpose of marriage! I can give you more and more scripture and more and more situations but I see many on small films and all the Christian shows- shorts and testimonies. All we have to do is go back and look at the book of Genesis and study the condition of Adam and see what happened in the beginning and look to Adam as a sinless man which makes a big difference here was a sinless man this was before the fall and before that ate of the fruit and Adam was alone and he was content with God and he was generally happy he didn’t know anything of a woman he didn’t know anything of a couple of two people having children and sex this was unknown to Adam this did not exist. God made Adam and here he was not ready to commit suicide- not ready to freak out- or have any depression- sadness- grief he was still in a sinless state “bearing significance” he was not lacking in anything; he was happy- full of joy so this was right after God created him. So God looked at Adam and said “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” [Part.Gen.2:18] [meet = [help fit] or {a suitable partner}] God instituted marriage to a sinless man not to make him complete- to fill some void- to give him some thing he didn’t have. So you see God did not have to give Adam {a sinless man} something as a form of a crutch- (to some need that he may have)- it was made for a man that had all the fellowship and friendship with God already, Marriage was not made for all these specific reasons that mankind thinks it holds.

. I have two friends that got married they were the simple church people and they met in church and he was the pastor and she played the piano and they finally got married they were both saved- and both filled with the Holy Spirit and when they got married things began to change, she was like looking to her husband like a {prince charming riding on a white horse} and she was the {damsel in distress} that needed to be rescued from her past early part of her life- There is (more to the story) but she needed this man to sweep her off her feet and (change the history of her scared life) and needed his love and help- as if she was caught in a tower of the castle and he had to climb up and he took her on the back of his horse and they road off into the sunset, they seemed like the perfect couple; he was the athletic type all kinds of letters when he was younger and she was the beautiful home coming queen and cheerleader and they seemed like they were just made for each other. But the riding off into the sunset began the world that Deb had for Jack, she came from a normal home which was a Christian home and her dad died and her mom was Christian and found some man in another church at some gathering of churches her mom was very lonely looking for another Christian man that had the same values as her dad, as she was growing up her new dad would lock her in the closet for punishment and she started her dreaming in there, locked up in this closet by a fake Christian father but he didn’t like her because she was the outgoing prim and proper Christian girl- and he won over her mom but she knew he didn’t act saved when mom wasn’t around, there were problems and the main thing she was always locked in the closet and her day dreaming became a reality and she wanted to be rescued by this prince on the white horse and Deb was normal except for her dreams of being in the closet, her new dad didn’t have any other punishment or never talked with her- she missed her old dad and she didn’t like being in the closet. She would stay in there the whole time her mom was away and she thought she would never get out of there. When she got married to Jack she wanted Jack to be the prince in the dreams she had to always rescue her- she could not even go to her own house because of her new dad, so Jack was her new prince that saved her from the jail closet so to speak- but he had to be gone a lot and she felt alone and this bothered her and he was always invited to preach at other specials and the county seat and congress etc. She was alone which made her seem like she was still in the tower and her marriage was falling apart she could never see Jack and he was always ministering here and there so they loved each other but the loneliness was compared to the being locked in the closet. Her past became a dream of reality and when Jack came home it was like being let out of the castle, more and more she depended on Jack and more and more she missed him and her old dad she became totally lonely her mom was still taking trips and she had know one as time went on she felt so alone she was alone even when the church girls called, she was locked up even when she could go outside like when Jack wasn’t around she was locked in the closet more and more she needed him and more and more she ended even lonelier - then Jack came home and found Deb in the closet sitting in the dark waiting for him to come home- and then she became angry that she thought he was leaving her to be alone on purpose; then the fights began she totally feel into the dream and her prince would never rescue her; and she was in the closet longer in her own mind and when he would get home it was like she was in prison and Jack had the key so the fights- got so bad she had a breakdown and then tried to kill herself sitting in the garage closet with the cars running and the door shut to the outside. She got taken to the hospital she almost poisoned herself breathing all that exhaust for hours. Deb came home and was different she would get violent with Jack and soon Jack had to cancel everything extra and then he had to give up the regular pastor job so he would stay home and fight after fight with Debbie and got worse soon Jack began to cry out to God and to take the dreams of the closet away from her mind and he not being the prince on the horse to rescue her. It got even worse till Debbie didn’t know what she was doing and blaming everything on Jack and then she went to a Christian counselor and got back to prayer reading the word and the closet was gone, most of this dream out of her head but then Jack was so depressed he lost everything over a girl being punished and locked in a closet. Then Jack got made and no matter how mad he got she would just smile and serve or minister to Jack, there was nothing he could say or do to make Debbie upset she found her roots that were taught to her by her original father. All the scriptures that were taught to her about the wife the woman submission and teaching and the action of the virtuous woman which was proverbs 32 which was Bathsheba written by Solomon. Debbie found what she needed and became the virtuous woman, she even prayed over Jack while he slept for hours, then Jack became almost like David and began to recite the psalms and sing with the piano that he didn’t know how to play of course it was Debbie’s piano but Jack somehow taught himself and began to write songs of praise. It seemed God was in each of them all the time- their faith in each other brought the love of God to them both in perfect harmony. They both run a church plus sing and play the organ and piano for thousands in a large church in Oklahoma. She was looking to God for her spiritual help and then Jack became the same way the word helped each of them; the word helped Deb find her true calling the woman of the home; and Jack found his new calling sings psalms and spiritual songs and now they both keyed on the power of God their marriage is working and their testimony brings many marriages together once they realized they need God as the source. Debbie was placing demands on Jacks life- that only God was able to fulfill. Debbie was looking at Jack to be the rescuer and the God to be Jack and many relationships today think they can rely on their mate to do things they are not perfected to do; and each person each relationship each marriage has some different demand that they hold on one another; and when they look at their mate to perform their dreams and demands and sometimes they make mistakes and just can’t do it; a war will break out- with fighting and strife and when the devil gets in the door the whole family suffers. I am not letting satan destroy this nation by taking apart the families in our nation- all things start in the home that is why they say if you can’t run your home you should not be running the church; if God is not in the home as the head how can Christ be the head of the church. God can do all things- all things are possible with God. God has to be in the relationship and people have to know that so many make it through the marriage and so many force it to last because of the kids or some other reason, but sometimes they just can’t go on so people live unhappy- they live depressed they live alone- even when the mate is right there and everyone knows what I am saying people can be sitting right together and still be alone. We can’t have a marriage without the Lord the marriage can’t be deficient and He must be the director; the home is so important and so many people will ignore the fact- so many don’t even believe they need God; so many today are unhappy- they don’t have joy- they are depressed- they want to die- many want to end it all- and they have not even the knowledge about hell- they don’t even know enough to give God a chance- even unsaved lost people- this by keeping a marriage together may be the only possible way to witness automatically because the marriage is so important we have kids living with other people today- we have our kids being brought up by other people- last week I didn’t reply with the best ministry; the best ministry is the house wife! She has the best ministry, and if God is the head then the child will be trained and they will not fall into drugs they will not get pregnant at 13 they will not be sneaking abortions at 14 the whole world could change if people would just let God into their marriage the way it is supposed to be. God created the heaven and the earth and he also created the marriage so what is the difference? People have to understand that the mate can’t perform perfect all the time, they can’t be there and take care of this- and take care of that- family members rely to much on each other and as soon as someone makes a mistake; it is your fault it is your problem! You caused this to happen- you didn’t do this- you forgot that and you forgot the garbage- or to walk the dog- or feed the fish- or clean the table off- you didn’t do the dishes, you need God’s type of love in the household you all need it everyone is looking at their own mate for perfection and that all the time is not possible how many families do you know are perfect who have that perfect relationship only with God as the head will you ever see a perfect marriage and people will say well everyone is having problems as soon as you compare yourselves with others you become un- wise and that is in [2Cor.10:12] “For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise.” you can’t compare yourselves with others- that is like comparing yourselves with Leave it to Beaver and those families do not exist. The actors in Hollywood have less of God in their minds then the world put together- in America at lest 90% believe there is a God, in Hollywood only 10% believe there is a God! When you are wealthy and spending money like they got- you don’t have to pray for your car to start to get to work- they just go out and buy another car if theirs does not start. It seems like the poor have more relations with God then the rich- they don’t have to ask God for anything they just go out and buy it from age to fat to facelifts to new clothes to new jobs- they can have their own children have their own companies to run- they don’t have to worry about paying for education- a poor man if he does not make it in sports or is very smart- they don’t have a chance to even get into a school that is worth the education itself. The poor man is in constant flow with God and it seems that the ministries are making it because they are spreading the word of God and the money is coming from somewhere and the rich don’t even know where their own money is going that is God; for some of these Christian networks it takes millions a month to support -and they are receiving it; because God is supplying all the need to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. We who are poor the 99% of America and we are leaning on God we have the relationship we have the closeness of God, that 1% owns half of America those are the rich anyone else are more or less slaves and don’t even know it. When I was in the restaurant business I met one Christian out of hundreds upon hundreds of people and that one Christian quit in a few days- the restaurant business is not for the Christian- the business itself is not even legal- I don’t think I ever met a owner that didn’t do something illegal. I have seen people walk out of businesses because they didn’t want any part of them. I have seen people just stand and work and cry during rushes and at the end of the night they hated every minute of it and would say they are trapped in the situation and cry some more- it was the most terrible stressful job I ever had was a line cook, you are standing in a cave of fire and you can’t leave- you can’t think- you don’t even know you have to go to the bathroom! You don’t even have time to think and the sweat will come down you for hours; and then you may have a minute to take a breath and get hit again- I mean you get so busy you could forget to breath, that is how much stress you are under you are using your mind and body like a computer and a circus act at the same time. And just stand there in about 130 degrees it was terrible and I had to do that for years- and it is said stay out of the business don’t even think about it. I will never let any of my children ever even think of being in the business even if I could send them to school and let them come out a master Chef and it still would not be worth it. Even for the natural someone will always steal what you invented. Where there is no Christianity don’t go there!

The fact remains the most important thing is the relationship with the Lord- that is the whole of Christianity I could stop what I am talking about right now and just talk on the relationship with the Lord then once you have that solid relationship marriage is just a by-product; and it is just like anything else God was with me always and I am just finding out through relationship the learning power God gives all of us; and then we are able to pass that knowledge along to others. Your relationship with God is a refection of your marriage relationship; and people will say I know people who have a good marriage and don’t even know God! Yea- we can say maybe- but the truth of the matter is the marriage is the better your relationship with God the better you know what the relationship as a whole in the marriage is- the mirror image of the relationship. Let me explain if you can’t receive God’s love you can’t give God’s love- you can give the love of the world but who would want it? The love of God is the love we all cherish, and in marriage the love needs to be strong and to be in truth and have purity and you can never begin to understand God’s love unless you receive God’s love! As I have said before you can’t give away something you don’t have. Many of us are praying for each other in the marriage and we are asking God if only they would be a better provider- if only they cared about the kids more- if only they could understand, this is the wrong approach; the thing is we need that unconditional love of God- some will say well how am I going to do that? I am not here to discourage you; I am here to encourage you; Jesus has done it all already for us- and God with his grace is that unconditional love we all must possess, that same type we can’t look to our mate for and hope to instantly receive joy! We have to get healthy and have that love flowing within us to be the contributor to the marriage to be an asset- to be a giver instead of the taker- and the only way we obtain this direction is to have the intimate personal relationship with God. God will show us what to do we have to be around some one to pick up there habits, their knowledge- we need time with God- this way we can give to the marriage we are giving the love of God to our mate from God, Jesus wants to give us his love more then we want it from him, praying for our mates just does not cut it, we have to learn how to proceed, to have the attitude of love so we can share the same love we receive from the Lord- it is done already- we just have to receive that same love- don’t give up, and say I can’t understand, or I quit, I can’t do it- there is nothing to do; just be yourself and be close to God just like he is sitting with you right now and then you can bring the school notes home with you and show your mate what you learned at school today; it is that simple- there is no hard classes it is an open teaching so you can be able to come and go as you please- God is with you everywhere you can’t be late just be there for him and then you can be there with your mate absorbing the same values. Who can give the most- who can love the most – who can forgive the most. Once that begins you will have a healthy marriage in the process and in the making and it will work. But one of the first steps is we have put unrealistic fantasy type expectations on marriage and it simply can’t stand the pressure. It was not created for those purposes. “From whom the whole body fitly joined together and compacted by that which every joint supplieth, according to the effectual working in the measure of every part, maketh increase of the body unto the edifying of itself in love.” [Eph. 4:16]

So what is the real purpose of marriage? Why did God create marriage? We use the scripture in Gen. 2:18 and God gave reason for the marriage what was the main purpose? “And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.” [Gen. 2:18] Adam was a sinless man; he was not lonely so marriage was not to give him any fellowship; he was not depressed, so marriage did not have a purpose to bring him out of depression. One of the reasons was for appropriation and reproduction there are many scriptures and I will just go for the most dominate reason for God establishing marriage. God wants marriage to be the power of unity. When God took something out of Adam to make Eve and you would think Adam would be less of a man and when he took Eve out of Adam you would have think to have less, if you have two oranges and take one away you only have one left but with God you will have more the Lord can divide and still have more then he started with here in “And Jesus took the loaves; and when he had given thanks, he distributed to the disciples, and the disciples to them that were set down; and likewise of the fishes as much as they would. When they were filled, he said unto his disciples, Gather up the fragments that remain, that nothing be lost. Therefore they gathered them together, and filled twelve baskets with the fragments of the five barley loaves, which remained over and above unto them that had eaten.” [John 6: 11-13] He had 5 loves of bread and two fish and then feed 5,000 men even more with women and children and at the end he ended up with more then he started with even after everyone ate, it makes no sense to us but there is a word called synergy so when God took Eve out of Adam he was no less of a man- we have to figure Adam was “more”; So with the two- Adam and Eve they were two full people and with this agreement and with unity and power God gave us this extra power, which as we are studying we are all understanding more and more what God gave us to fight the devil and how we can walk in unity and with power- two are better then one which brings us to “And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth” All of this has meaning of the main purpose of marriage- unity- authority- power- two multiplied- all of this brings us to a secure reason for this bond, of man and woman. The bond of marriage is powers of agreement where two become one- there is no stronger bond or any other type of agreement stronger with more unity then in the marriage. So we have this word synergy which is a Godly multiplication instead of 1+1 =2 --1+1 will =10 or 1+1 will=100 instead of addition it is multiplied and this word becomes synergy and the two become one flesh-then multiplied into a created power in unity. So he could release power and unity between the man and the woman in this one flesh bond of power. The dominate reason for God establishing marriage God wants us to walk upon the earth with power he does not want us to be without. “Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching any thing that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven. For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.” [Matt.18:19-20] This is powerful and to have Jesus say this is yours- a multiplied power we don’t understand the relative value of the bond between husband and wife God made a sinless man and Eve was also sinless and God did not have any preparation for the fall of man maybe why this part of marriage has been buried. We don’t realize the power we can all have through unity and with the agreement between husband and wife. These scriptures match up with the unity two factor: [Ecc. 4:9-12] “Two are better than one; because they have a good reward for their labour. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow: but woe to him that is alone when he falleth; for he hath not another to help him up. Again, if two lie together, then they have heat: but how can one be warm alone? And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”] Literally take dominion use this power and rule and conquer this earth, so Adam needed power to exercise this power the way God wanted it to be he would turn up this power and multiply it. God created Eve and the two would become one in the action of one flesh as so with marriage - with unity- and with power. God was able with this unity and agreement taken: was able to turn up this power through synergy of this multiplication process making them one flesh he was able to enforce this power through this bond so it wasn’t just twice but multiplied many times over, people get so much power as two becoming one flesh. “And he called unto him the twelve, and began to send them forth by two and two; and gave them power over unclean spirits;” [Mark 6:7] and the unity gives even more power. So you take this theory and add truth to the establishment of the scriptures: “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brethren to dwell together in unity! It is like the precious ointment upon the head, that ran down upon the beard, even Aaron's beard: that went down to the skirts of his garments; As the dew of Hermon, and as the dew that descended upon the mountains of Zion: for there the LORD commanded the blessing, even life for evermore.” {Psalm 133 in whole} Unity brings the command of the blessing- a blessing of power when they come together that is why man and women come together multiply our effectiveness to rule, rein conquer subdue upon this earth, this is the reason for the marriage of the two. This is the dominate factor of marriage I have read so many different themes and so many decisions intact I had everything all written out and being I was at it so long I was being attacked but all I had to do was to rearrange all the sentences to come out the way they were in the first place. It was all right there and I didn’t even see it satan does want to destroy the family with the bond of the one and the marriage agreement satan will be running from married Christians. They will walk into a room together and they will hear the demonic spirits screaming out trying to escape the area you both entered. The devil will see to it- it just does not come to pass- we need to say what can I give to this marriage to supply from the Lord the power with unity to add then multiply and get the power to rule with authority, we can’t let self go unrestrained, we could never satisfy self without union with the Lord we can only supplement what we give to our mates, the Lord gives us all things to get our contentment and our feast; our source is our strength from the Lord, the God shaped vacuum is God being the source of all things- the blessings of the Lord the source is from God our joy- our peace- our love- comes from God; Satan can’t destroy the most powerful unity which if we don’t set it up in our hearts as a goal to achieve- we will not even notice it does exist. So after the flood these inhabitants wanted to make a name for themselves: “And the LORD came down to see the city and the tower, which the children of men builded. And the LORD said, Behold, the people is one, and they have all one language; and this they begin to do: and now nothing will be restrained from them, which they have imagined to do. Go to, let us go down, and there confound their language, that they may not understand one another's speech. So the LORD scattered them abroad from thence upon the face of all the earth: and they left off to build the city.” [Gen. 11:5-8] This is a negative example of the power of unity not united in the Lord- but united in the flesh because selfish purposes - they are one- all one language nothing will be restrained upon them; here is an active self flesh activity which the power of one is being done and even God himself is being challenged; he is not part of the flow, so God because they are “one” in unity they can do anything, the Lord was challenged; unity is a powerful force. So the Lord divided them and slowed down their process with different languages this is where Satan is wanting to attack the unity of the family to like I said break up the agreement the union that the Lord feels challenged and the Lord for their own good this is reason the devil is fighting marriages; if he can divide the homes he can divide the churches- once the family decays- the civilizations will fall, the death bell rings to those cultivations that have been crushed from the inside of the very homes we live in. The power of agreement is power in itself he did it to multiply our effectiveness to have harmony- joy- contentment- a good healthy relationship with God and a good healthy relationship with the mates of the marriage. The power of agreement for unity will be the main purpose of marriage two become one- the power of two is multiplied beyond what we can figure the one flesh is- unity the power of agreement- the bond set before us which should become a goal in marriage to release more power that we could ever imagine. God wanted us to rule over this earth the power of agreement people do not recognize this! To multiply our effectiveness is to multiply our power by the agreement and the bond of marriage “[we can not look to marriage for what God did not intend it to be.]” Like the effects people look for today like marriage will bring happiness and security and take away the loneliness the depression and to add a contentment and fellowship with love for both mates. To multiply the species of mankind the only togetherness that would even come close to these qualities- people would have to have the goal already set on what the purpose of marriage is today. Otherwise the bond of marriage formulated this power of two being formed together multiplied into a power of extreme authority- we have to understand this unity this power God created through unity- once this unity is formed and positioned in our hearts as one of the goals of mankind we can establish the purpose of the true marriage bond and the reason behind the power of unity. We have to set this as a goal to subdue rule and rein and conquer over evil and we shall have children with this anointed power already formulated with the proper doctrine and God’s wisdom behind his own plan of action of the two being one flesh- to seek unity and then this mighty power is set into motion and the purpose of marriage is made known. To also bring Godly children into the world through additional love, otherwise if I just went on scripture based formula there would be know love at all in making of a new race. “And did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit. And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed. Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth.” [Mal. 2:15] “If I ascend up into heaven, thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there. [Psalms 139:8]